Attractive people have only one feature
There are people who do notmeet the generally accepted standards of beauty, do not seek the ideal and do not follow fashion, but they have some inexplicable, almost magical appeal.
We share the research of TIME magazine, which tried to answer what really attracts us to other people. And this is not at all an appearance, as most believe.
The answer is this: the main thing that a person catches is emotion. "It's trite," you will say.
But not everything is so simple:emotions in this case should not just be, but be sincere, and most importantly - simple. A person with simple emotions to understand others is more attractive in their eyes. Regardless of its appearance.
The fact is that we unconsciously look for a resemblance to the worldview of a person, and accordingly, with his thoughts and, as a rule, finding it, unconsciously we begin to feel the attraction to this person.
To such conclusions came as a result of experimentProfessor of the Department of Social Neurobiology of the University of Lübeck (Germany) Silke Anders: she showed a group of volunteers videos in which the actresses expressed fear or sadness.
After viewing the survey participants askedevaluate what you saw. It turned out that the better people understood the true emotions of the heroines, the more those heroines attracted them, quite independently of their physical data.
During the viewing, participants were also measuredbrain activity: the zone that is responsible for attraction and sympathy for another person showed increased activity in subjects when the feelings and experiences of the heroines seemed to them most clear.
In other words, the ability to easily decipher and accept other people's emotions makes us trust another person: we feel that we could find a common language with him, and we unconsciously draws him to him.